Single in Salt Lake? Here's How to Rock Self-Love This Valentine's Season

Alright, let's talk about the elephant in the room – Valentine's Day. If you're single in Salt Lake City (or anywhere in Utah, really), February can feel like a minefield of heart-shaped everything and couple's specials. But here's the thing: being single doesn't mean you can't celebrate love. In fact, it's the perfect time to focus on the most important relationship in your life – the one with yourself.

Why Self-Love Matters Self-love isn't just some fluffy concept. It's the foundation for healthy relationships, better mental health, and a more fulfilling life. And let's be real, it's way more reliable than depending on someone else for your happiness.

How to Practice Self-Love (No Cheesy Stuff, Promise)

1. Treat Yourself Like You Would Your Best Friend Would you tell your bestie they're not good enough? Didn't think so.

Try this: Next time you're being hard on yourself, ask, "Would I say this to my best friend?" If not, reframe that thought.

1. Date Yourself (Seriously, It's Not Weird) Who says you need a partner to enjoy a nice dinner or a fun activity?

Try this: Plan a solo date. Maybe it's trying that new restaurant in Sugar House or taking yourself to a Jazz game. Own it!

1. Set Some Boundaries (Because Your Time is Precious) Just because you're single doesn't mean you're always available.

Try this: It's okay to say no to that blind date your well-meaning aunt wants to set up. Your time, your choice.

1. Invest in Your Passions (Without Worrying About Impressing Anyone) Now's the perfect time to dive into what YOU love.

Try this: Always wanted to learn rock climbing? Check out The Front Climbing Club. Love art? Take a class at the Utah Museum of Contemporary Art.

1. Practice Gratitude (Without the Cheesy Journal) Focusing on the good stuff can shift your whole perspective.

Try this: Each night, think of three good things that happened that day. They can be as small as "great hair day" or "delicious breakfast burrito."

1. Take Care of Your Body (In Ways That Feel Good to You) Your body does so much for you. Show it some love back.

Try this: Find a form of movement you actually enjoy. Maybe it's hiking in Millcreek Canyon or dancing at a class in downtown SLC.

1. Curate Your Social Media (Because Comparison is the Thief of Joy) Scrolling through coupled-up posts can be a real mood killer.

Try this: Unfollow or mute accounts that make you feel bad about being single. Follow accounts that inspire and uplift you instead.

1. Create a Cozy Space (That's All Yours) Your living space can be a reflection of self-love.

Try this: Dedicate a corner of your home to things that make you happy. Fill it with books, candles, cozy blankets – whatever brings you joy.

1. Plan Something to Look Forward To Having future plans can give you a sense of excitement and purpose.

Try this: Book a weekend getaway to Park City or plan a summer road trip to the Utah national parks.

1. Seek Support When You Need It Self-love includes knowing when to ask for help.

Try this: If you're struggling with being single, talk to a friend or consider chatting with a therapist. There's no shame in getting support.

Remember, being single isn't a waiting room for your real life to start. It's a valuable time to grow, explore, and become the best version of yourself. Who knows? By focusing on loving yourself, you might just attract the kind of love you deserve when the time is right.

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